Stop Procrastinating by Changing Your way of Thinking

Hello and welcome back to my slice of the world!! It's been way toooo long since the last time we had a good convo.. and dear reader life has been crazy but this year my one promise to myself (well one of many LOL, you know me) is to slow down to speed up and this time do it right! So without further ado HAPPY NEW YEAR and let's talk about procrastination.. yet again because this seems to be a reoccurring theme for me and my clients.
Also my clients and I have made a promise to ourselves and each other and I would like to invite you to make the promise as well.. be imperfect and learn to love it!
Once we learn to keep this small but monumental promise things get easier.
Everyone procrastinates at some time or another. If we’re honest, we will admit that we’ve missed opportunities, delayed outcomes, and caused other negative consequences because of procrastinating.
My number one reason for procrastinating .. I'm worried about the outcome.. I get in my head about whatever it is being perfect and then next thing you know I haven't even started. Take some time and think of what your number one reason for procrastinating is.. good journal prompt!
If you’ve ever intentionally deferred acting on a goal or put off doing what needed to be done to realize your dream, get through school, acquire that promotion, lose/gain that weight, or take that bold step, then you my friend have most definitely procrastinated.
AND IT"S OKAY!
As you’ve seen for yourself, the old adage, “You snooze, you lose,” is real.
Procrastination is a tough habit to overcome! Lucky for you, however, you can put procrastination in your past and move forward without having to worry about all those negative consequences again.... but if you do you face procrastination.. guess what you now have the tools to overcome this habit over and over again for as long as it takes... as long as you do not quit or give up!
The key to real change - even for procrastinating - is changing your mindset.
You can change your mindset by changing your thoughts. And what motivates your thoughts? Perception.
Perception is how you see things. Your thoughts all arise from your view of a circumstance, situation, or the world in general. You have more control over your world than you think.
If you think you can, or if you think you cannot, you are correct.
Perception is everything. You can change your mind - and your life - by changing your thinking.
Today is a good day to start changing the way you think and stop procrastinating.
Here’s how:
1. Decide that you want to change your mind. Start thinking differently about
your goals, projects, and tasks. Think “urgency” and “opportunity.” This will cause you to see the benefits of pursuing those actions with expedience.
2. Like Nike says, “Just Do It.” There is no time like the present to do what needs to be done. Whenever you think of procrastinating, redirect your thoughts to this short command. A must read.. The 5 Second Rule.. this is one of my favorite books to recommend because it truly helped me develop the habit of going to the gym at 5am! The book is that great!
3. Avoid putting overdue emphasis on the negative aspects. Thinking about all the things you don’t like about a task can cripple you from even getting started on it. When you’re in this frame of mind, excuses have a way of flooding the mind and making you feel better about not working on the task.
4. Focus on the benefits. Seek out the brighter side of things. Think of the benefits you’ll receive by getting the task done early or on time. When you do this continuously, you’ll become more effective at getting yourself to go ahead and do what needs to be done. The more you practice, the better you’ll get.
5. Stop negative self talk and doubting your ability. Let me tell you something. I say it all the time so if you've been around for a while you know this line. You can do absolutely anything in the world. I don't care how hard or impossible it may seem! Please believe me when I tell you if there is a will there is a way. It may not happen overnight but it will happen!
When you stop procrastinating, you’ll experience the joy of completing, succeeding, or achieving all the things you had deferred. Start with picking one of my five 5 tips we talked about today, and then maybe next week try another one..
Removing one more item from your agenda will bring you the satisfaction of a job well done as you move on to your next task. You will also show yourself how capable you are. Until next Wednesday my friend.
With love always,




